It’s time we had the talk. The love poem talk.
As a teacher, I love to encourage my kids to write, but Lord help me when they bring me their love poetry to look at .
When I make them write poetry, I tell them that they can write about anything they want, as long as it isn’t romantic love. “If you can out-sonnet Shakespeare, then go for it; if not? Pick a different subject.” Then I tell them that if they give me a teenage love poem to read, I will make confetti out of it.
If the poem has the phrase “there for me” in it, I’ll add glitter and use it at their next parent conference.
So, this being National Poetry Month, we’re going to get the obvious out of the way. If you love poetry, there are love poems you love. This is not complicated, unlike love itself, whose complication is infinite and ever-changing.
Here are my favorites, and why I love them so much. Can I use the word ‘love’ again? I’d love to, thanks.
(1) Shakespeare’s sonnet 114. Otherwise known as “Let me not to the marriage of true minds admit impediments.” One of Will’s best known, it basically says that love isn’t going to break if things get in its way. It’s not going to change for the worse when bad things happen. If it’s real love, it’ll get stronger, and the fact that you’re reading the poem is proof of it. The fact that we study it is proof that The Bard was right. When it comes to love poems, he wrote more than a hundred of them, and they are all worth reading, especially if you are both in love and a poetry geek.
(2) The Seafarer–This poem may seem like an odd choice for a list of love poems, but the Anglo-Saxon Bard who wrote it was no stranger to the heart ache love can cause, especially if the thing you love does not love you back. The speaker’s one true love is the ocean, which we all know is capricious and unrelenting. Not great traits for a lover to have, but we don’t pick who or what we love, do we?
(3)I Love You, by Roy Croft This poem has some dubious origins if Wikipedia is to be believed, but regardless of who wrote it, it maps out why we love the people we do. It’s not just about them, it’s about who we become when we’re with them. Remember Jack Nicholson’s “You make me want to be a better man?” speech? That’s essentially what this poem is. It’s simple, free verse, and doesn’t require much reading between the lines to understand. I think we had it read at our wedding, because it’s just that awesome of a poem (and my memory is just that out of whack!)
(4) Annabel Lee, by Edgar Allan Poe My favorite poem of all time, by one of my favorite writers. It’s a sad fairy tale love story about love that goes on beyond the “sepulchre there by the sea” into eternity. When I was in 6th grade or so, I figured out that “Annabel Lee” rhymed with Tracy Marie, and that made my little heart explode. Even now, when I recite it, I have to sub my name for Annabel Lee’s name at least once. And it still gives me a goose bump or two. Like much of Poe’s love poetry it mourns the loss of his love, but does so in a beautiful lyrical style with sound effects and rhythm as only Poe can do.
(5) 1st Corinthians 13:4-8. These are the “Love is patient” verses, and might be the most recited passage in the history of modern weddings. It is a Biblical definition of what love is and isn’t, and no matter where you are in your spiritual life, you have to admit that the definition is pretty spot on. Now, there are about a gazillion different translations for the Bible, and while some are better than others, your choice as to a favorite is exactly that. The link I added here allows you to choose among MANY translations.
(6) Sonnet 43, Edna St.Vincent Millay Many might argue against this choice for a great love poem, but hear me out. Each of us has a lost love story. A broken heart is good for someone because of all the lessons that come with it, but most sad love poetry is all “please come back, baby.” Millay is wise enough to know that such wishes only create more problems, and that broken hearts and loves that didn’t work out should stay in the past, sighing and tapping on the window pain.
(7) To Althea, From Prison” by Richard Lovelace. Love doesn’t hold us back, according to Richard Lovelace, it gives us the freedom of flying angels. Perhaps best known for its “Stone walls do not a prison make” line, most people have at least heard of this poem. He admits to loving the physical relationship with his beloved Althea, and offers the idea that true love is the most precious kind of freedom. Plus, he uses the verb tipple. How can you not love that?
Worksheets for some of these poems are in progress, and will be posted in my Teachers Pay Teachers Store when they’re done!
What’s your favorite poem? Comment with a link below!